My sister just (well, a week ago) left us from a glorious ten day visit.
I didn't realize how lonely I get until I had her with me for a whole ten days.
It's not just the loneliness that comes with being a stay-at-home mom. It's just living here, isolated, away from family, away from friends I've had since... forever. With a time difference that makes talking to people sometimes difficult to line up, and everyone (myself included) having fairly busy lives, so contact is limited even more.
So it's lonely here. But I don't notice HOW lonely until I have someone with me. Especially a WOMAN someone. Especially my SISTER.
It was a great visit. And I miss her terribly.
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Mmmm. Wallaby. |
We did a lot of the typical stuff with her that we do with all our visitors who stay long enough to do things with. Local wildlife at
Wings Wildlife Park, ice cream, multitudes of honey and bees at
Melita Honey Farm aka The Honey Place, fudge and coffee at
Fudge n' Good Coffee, fish n chips, the beach (not together this time... because of naps and rain and mostly naps), being inside an I-spy picture at
Reliquaire, and sampling local or national foods and drinks at random places very close to us. Including a wallaby my brother-in-law shot for us that I brined for a few days and roasted (best tasting wallaby I have EVER made).
Joanna had a benefit none of our other guests have had, though. I have my Australian drivers licence (because my permanent resident visa was approved, Yay! It's a long long story, that one), and finally feel (sort of) comfortable driving around myself. On the wrong side of very narrow roads.
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Playing with Aunt Jojo in his "hole". It is not a slide, it is a hole. |
Of course, since she's family, Joanna spent a TON of time with her nephew. And Simon soaked it up. He adores his "Aaa Joooo" (Aunt Jo). His thought process probably went something like this: "Someone to play with me, make noises, color, is completely at my beck and call? And is closer to my height than Mama and Daddy? I LOVE YOU!" He loves her so much, in fact, that when she left, he kept asking where she was, and has, for 5 days now, thrown MASSIVE tantrums at dinner time (his time to process why his new favorite person is no longer with him). How do I know it's over Joanna leaving? I don't 100%. But after about 15 minutes of screaming, crying, and flailing he scarfs down his food quite happily (including broccoli and kale), so it's not a food issue.
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Wings Wildlife: Where you can pat and feed kangaroos. It. Is. AWESOME. |
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Joanna (and all of us) got to pat the baby Devil! |
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Who needs to pat a baby Tasmanian Devil? Simon has LEAVES. Because those are rare... |
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Simon being cheeky with the wonderful woman who was giving talks and letting us pat the animals. |
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We all got to pat Doug, the most adorable baby wombat EVER. |
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I thought a bird this large would be SCARY. Nope, like me, he LOVES the emu! He tried to share his water with it. |
We miss you Joanna! We were so glad to have you visit us!